Here are some tips for you if you don’t want a happy and healthy relationship to exist only in your dreams and if you want to make it come true;
- Do not compare your relationship with other people’s relationships.
- Do not raise the expectations of your marriage and your partner by believing in fairy tales… Remember, when expectations do not come true, it will, unfortunately, lead to frustrations and problems.
- Try to create common interests so that positive communication and joy in your relationship are generated.
- Share your feelings… Don’t expect your partner to understand you in all circumstances. Try to express your thoughts and troubles sincerely and without blaming anyone.
- Seek happiness firstly in yourself. If you are not happy as an individual, your partner will not be able to bring you happiness. This will make it difficult for you to have a healthy relationship.
- Try to respect each other in all circumstances. Try to show your respect and appreciation for them even when your partner is not there to see it.
- Learn to forgive each other. Forgiveness causes you to be free of negative emotions and resentment.
- Develop intimacy with your partner. Try to create both emotional and sexual intimacy with your partner.
- Try to see the good attributes and positive traits of your spouse. Remember how you would see the good and positive qualities of your spouse more clearly at the beginning of your relationship, and remind yourself of these traits frequently.
- Stop seeking perfection. The concept of “perfect relationship” never existed. Therefore; Instead of waiting insistently to meet someone who agrees with you on every subject or who can make you happy at any instant; You should try to cultivate the relationship that most satisfies you.
Sibel Üresin
